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Word Of The Day



Part of speech: noun
Origin: British English, 1958
  1. A government system in which power and advancement is based upon talent and performance rather than birthright or wealth.
  2. Any organizational structure in which people are judged based on achievement.
Examples of Meritocracy in a sentence
" Democratic elections promote a meritocracy, instead of monarchy
where power is passed down through the family."

" The company has become more of a meritocracy, with regular
performance reviews determining promotions and raises."


The King and Queen

Dear LOML (love of my life) when i met you i knew id love you forever. Your smile and eyes attracted me to you at first sight, but your personality is what has me drawn to you. You are everything i have wanted and more. I love your scent, the way you walk the way you talk. You look at me as if no other women in this world exists. When i’m feeling low about myself you assure me that i’m the most beautiful woman you’ve ever seen. Being married to you has been a journey and its one high i don’t want to come down from. A life would without you wouldn’t be right. You complete me and ill love you for the rest of my life.

Love Always,

Open Letter

Dear Mother, Your love has sheltered me like no other. I never knew how hard being a mother was until i had children of my own. Funny thing is, everyone tells me that my daughter acts just like me when i was younger. I know i got on your nerves a lot but being around you made me feel safe. you were my superhero, there was nothing you couldn’t do or wouldn’t do for me. I still think about you everyday. Even though you are off experiencing another beautiful life in heaven i can still feel your presence near me when i’m feeling alone and feeling like my back is against the wall. 13 was a very young age to lose you but you were very sick and at the time i didn’t understand the severity of your Lung cancer. As i got older i realized that you gave me the best 13 years of my life and there was nothing the doctors could do to help you heal. You always told me that when you left this earth that you will still always be here with me in spirit and if i looked up at the sky and saw the brightest star that it would be you. I often think back to the dishonest things I’ve done as a child and i laugh because my daughter does a lot of the things i use to do and i have to remind myself that you loved me regardless of the things i did and that’s why i appreciate you so much. There are a lot of children without mothers and i am grateful that i got a chance to experience life with mine. You were an amazing human being and everyone who has ever gotten the chance to meet you loved you from the moment they laid eyes on you. A single mother raising 4 kids on her own is not easy but you made it seem like nothing ever bothered you and you kept your composer in every situation. You are the best and I love you!

Love Always,
Your Baby Ton Ton

Having a Blast

I took this picture after i finished my hair and make up

Millians Trip To Chicago’s Taste Fest

My trip to Chicago was so amazing. I enjoyed every aspect there. The people are very friendly and nice. I went with my husband, my sister, and her friend. There were a lot of nationalities there Chinese, Indian, Jamaican, Caucasian, African American, and many more. The food at the Chicago Taste Fest was different from the food here in Detroit. You have to buy tickets to get food. i found that very interesting and fun. although i didn’t get a chance to taste food from every stand every stand was unique in its own way.

there were many different nationalities at the Taste Of Chicago Fest
Goose Island Beer Co.
Bus View
buildings downtown Chicago, IL
Millian (left) Sister (right)

I tried the pickle fries,jerk chicken and ice cream. My favorite was the ice cream it was mixed with orange sherbet, chocolate, vanilla and pecan. Although i wasn’t to found of the other food i got in still enjoyed tasting it.

Pickle Fries
Jerk Chicken

I cant believe i ate crickets for the first time and i have to say that it wasnt bad at all they actually taste like sunflower seeds. There were lots of games to play that did not require any tickets like basketball, kick the ball on the target, fishing, and many more. There were concerts and bars music was playing and everyone was having fun.


My bus ride was very long i left out on saturday at 1:30 am i got on the travel bus at 6:30am and we arrived at the chicago taste fest at 10:45am. The bus had tvs and comfortable seating, a friendly bus driver and the bus was clean. I brought snacks and the host also provided snacks ( finger sandwiches, chips, pop, and jello shots),

Millian and Hubby

Chicagos riverwalk is different from detroits river walk. Chicago has a big water fall that everyone plays in and detroit has a slash pad where water shoots out from the ground. i visted a few stores there and their prices for certain items are different from the ones in detroit.

He fell asleep on the bus

By this being my first experience traveling outside of michigan i enjoyed my time, the people i was around and the fair. I would definatly come back again to visit.

Millian and the Big Cookie
Sis big cookie
Millian (left) Hubby (middle) Sis (right)

A Mother’s Bond

   We all have those times when our kids get on our nerves and we have to make that call to grandma/grandpa.

I have 4 kids and everyday I always say to myself ” why cant I have just one break.” Me being a stay at home mom I’m with my kids 24/7, while my husband is at work. I’m losing my mind running in this room because someone is crying, changing diapers all day (feels like I’m changing 100 diapers a day) I’m cleaning up messes everywhere. I’m ready to rip out my hair.

I thought I finally got a break but my childrens grandmother could only get one of my children so I picked my oldest daughter because she the bossy one and what ever she tells her brothers to do they do it. I figured they would be ok for a few hours, but boy was I wrong as soon as she left to go with her grandmother my kids started crying so bad I started to cry because I couldn’t get them to stop crying.

I started to miss her after 3 minutes. I could not deal with my kids crying because their sister wasn’t here it was the most frustrating thing ive ever had to go through. It made me feel bad and I realized me sending my kids off when they are getting on my nerves only makes matters worse because not only would my kids not stop crying but I couldn’t either. She’s having fun and here I am blowing her grandmothers phone up every 5 minutes to ask what they are doing.

p.s. shes gone with her grandmother before but since we moved in our new home shes hasn’t been away from home

-I may not be perfect but when I look at my children I know that I got something in my life perfectly right.



My First Blog


Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken. ā€” Oscar Wilde.

This is the first post on my new blog. Iā€™m just getting this new blog going, so stay tuned for more. Subscribe below to get notified when I post new updates. Ā Ā 

Although this is my first blog i feel very confident that this new hobby will go well. Ill start off by introducing myself. My name is SHH.. its a secret for now šŸ˜‰ but everyone calls me Millian. I am 24 years old. I live in Detroit Michgan ( Motor City) Im married to a wonderful man and father. I have 4 wonderful spoiled annoying kids. I decided to start blogging because i love talking about my life and the things that i love i feel like my life is a big amazing book that is excitement sadness success and a bit of comedy on every chapter. I am so interested in learning new things and meeting all kinds of new people from all over the world and share my life and interests with them. I Started off with my Channel on youtube (queen millian) from singing to doing all kinds of reviews to comedy. I intend on making you enjoy my blogs enough to want to come back for more. I have all the tea šŸ™‚ 
 stay tuned and i hope you guys enjoy

– Queen